Looking for advice - Help for the Older Ages ?

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uttleya
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Looking for advice - Help for the Older Ages ?

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Hi everyone

Thanks for the help regarding my recent post "A poem of sorts " .
As I pointed out , my dad is 80 and living in Barlick . I phoned him earlier this week and asked him how he was and he said sick and fed up.
He has a few health issues , and this actually had him in hospital and care over the last few months . I get the impression he no longer wants to drive for fear of having an accident , but will if he has to .
My brother does live with him in a flat but works long shifts and cant possibly run him around

No doubt there are people on this forum who are either older {not elderly :-) } or have family or friends who are in the same boat
Are there any services offered by the local council , charities or any other organisations who offer transport when in need , outings , group activities
I'm only asking for help as I left the UK when I was a young boy so I really don't know how things work in the UK now

I would appreciate any advice I can get - my dads worked hard all his life from a young age , then had to retire early to look after my invalided mum and has gone downhill from there . Id hate for him to spend his last days indoors when there might be help out there
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Re: Looking for advice - Help for the Older Ages ?

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Help Direct is the county council funded service which ought to be able to help.

http://www.calico.org.uk/SupportServices/HelpDirect‎ or phone 0303 333 1111.

Specific Community Transport information is available at: http://www3.lancashire.gov.uk/corporate ... geid=21910
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Re: Looking for advice - Help for the Older Ages ?

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Persuade him to kick the car into touch and use the money for taxis if he needs to go anywhere. Gets a lot of hassle off your back! I did and never regretted it.
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